Twice this month I’ve had men tell me I look tired. How can they think this is in any way a useful comment? I’m beginning to think I have droopy eyelids because at neither of these times was I even remotely tired. Here’s a tip, guys. Don’t tell a woman she looks tired, ever. Maybe you think it demonstrates concern; actually, it makes you sound clueless. If I’m tired, I probably know it. And not once have I thought upon hearing this, “Hey, you’re right; I need more sleep!” When I’m not tired, then I’m just outright offended because what you’re really saying is I look bad. See how that’s negative either way? Of course, maybe, just maybe, I was perky until you came along and bored me with your tired self.